with some useful informations by christian bauer and with the source of frodo emulator, i have rewritten the vic ii emulation in mess; the new source is not released: i wait for christian bauer permission: in the docs christian say:
"The rights on the source code remain at the author. It may not - not even in parts - used for commercial purposes without explicit written permission by the author. Permission to use it for non-commercial purposes is hereby granted als long as my copyright notice remains in the program. You are not allowed to use the source to create and distribute a modified version of Frodo."
this is not a modifed version of frodo, and is not a commercial purpose: probably i can use the code with the copyright notice
for a perfect sync between m6510 and vic ii i need yet a modified version of the m6510/6502 core: i think, in the current core, the RDY signal is not emulated
RDY: if this line is low during a read access, the processor stops with the address lines reflecting the current address being fetched. It is ignored during write access.
In the c64, RDY is used to stop the processor if the VIC needs additional bus cycles for character pointer and sprite data accesses
i try to understand the best way to proper implement th RDY feature (maybe someone have suggestions

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very nice to see sprites in the border
http://mamedev.emulab.it/robiza/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/0003.png